FACTS ABOUT GIRLS THAT MEN SHOULD KNOW

The first thing that you should know is that every girl is different. The only thing that remains the same is they all have the same nature of motherhood and protective influence. Apart from that, you must also remember that every girl, each and every single one of them, just wants to feel special, especially in RELATIONSHIPS!! Keep these following things in mind though, and they will serve you well. Trust me.. :)

1. Girls absolutely hate it when they are lied to. But if you must do so, or desperately have to, make sure that you never ever get caught. For if you get caught, there will be no escape. Oh like come on guys, don't tell me that you won't get pissed, if your GF start talking bulls*** to you.

2. Girls always consider actions greater than words. Mind that! So if you really wish to impress her, do something that shows her how you feel, rather than simply talking about it. 

3. Get used to apologizing, because whether you did something wrong or not, you will always be the one apologizing. Girls love that, and they cannot stand guys who do not know how to apologize. I mean, too ego.

4. A girl will always think she looks fat, no matter what. You have to comfort her and convince her otherwise. This goes hand in hand with their self-conscious nature so you better get used to it! Don't ever insult her. Give her a support.

5. When it comes to gifts, something meaningful and thoughtful is far more important than its price. So get to work and start thinking of things that are important to her.

6.Always remember their birthday. This is important to them. Most guys are not aware about these facts on girls. So if you are one these guys, please change.

7. Lastly, always compliment her. One of the most interesting facts about girls is that they love being the center of attention. Comment on her hair, her eyes, her dress, her body and everything else that you can think of. But it must and has to be a natural compliment. Never ever make a compliment to other girls while she is right in front of your damn eyes. Girls hate that! Even though you are telling the truth, but still, it's a RUDE thing to do. Why can't you just keep your sweet words inside yourself instead of spitting it out which it can hurt your GF.

Remember guys! Girls only want to feel special. So please treat them special just like you say that you really love them. 

** As for me, only no 1 and 2 pretty much applies me.. The rest, I don't know.. Found this on Malay article and translate to English.. J

FAT WOMEN THROUGH THE EYES OF MEN

Most men sure do want a beautiful, perfect, slim and slender women. Yes, there are some men that proudly said they love fat women. These are definitely the MINORITY. The truth is most men want slim women. That is why a lot of women are trying so damn hard to essentially maintain a nice figure over their body. Research has been made towards guys by asking them if they would end over their relationships with fat women.

Survey said :

41% - No, if I love her so much.

38% - Yes, because it shows that she didn’t show any effort to take care of her body and makes me didn’t have to fascinate with her beauty.

12% - Yes, because personality comes first.

9% - No, but I would try to do something to make sure she’s the one that would end up our relationship.

So, what's a girl to do? How can she avoid ending up someday with a fat hater? It's up to you if you want to move forward with a man that seems to hate fat women, but always remember, there is no guarantee that YOU won't be that woman someday.

** All I know is, that I want a man that wants me, not just my body. I refuse to run here and there, like a hamster running on a wheel, for the rest of my life, just to make some shallow man happy! As long as I stay healthy, I am happy. J

MYSELF : NOW AND THEN

Few days more, we will leave 2011.. There were so many sweet and bitter memories happened throughout this year.. 


No sad stories this time because I hate it..


Few days ago, I have checked my Myspace account which I can't remember when was the last time I logged in.. There I saved some of my old pics since I've lost it..


These pics were from 2007 until now.. I found that many different changes in me every year..  


It is because I love trying new things by experimenting myself to do so.. Sometimes I look fat, and other times A BIT skinny..


Here are some of my pics.. J

2007

2008

2009

These two pics were taken in 2010.. Which I was so fat.. Hate it! Hate it! Hate it!.. Since then, I started to exercise and diet.. My mama told me that I look fat and worried that my weight would increase again..

As a result, I've managed to lose some weight.. Well, just a little. J Then after losing my weight a bit, I've decided to cut my hair short.. 

2011

And now, I want to keep my hair long and straight.. No more curls.. no more hair dye.. Just my natural hair.. J 

I LOVE DURIAN!!

Yeay! This year's durian season has just started.  Many stalls have already opened and started selling the king of fruits. Recently, I bought it together with my mom.. ;) Not too cheap yet not too expensive..

I wanna share my funny experience about durian.. It was a story about a foreigner that loves durian sooo much!  I wasn’t sure if he’s American or British..

That time I went to work by train.. I saw many foreigners like almost everyday.. ;) But what made this 1 white guy caught my attention, he brought a plastic that contain lots of durian in it.. It amazed me.. Because as far as I know, most  people who are live in America, Europe, East Asia, South Africa, etc.. hate durian.. They hate it because of the smell which they are not used to..

So, he sat a few rows facing in front of me. I just stared at him because he was fun to look at.. J The train was going to depart shortly.. After few minutes, I saw him slowly took out a small tupperware.. I wondered what was in it.. He opened and guess what… It was DURIAN.. :D

I was like, WOW! Finally I can see a Westerner eating durian.. I was waiting to see his response.. Will he like it..? Surprisingly, he was okay with that fruit.. He kept on eating until a chaotic situation happened.. Some foreigner didn’t seem like the smell and I saw all of their “Damn! What’s that smell?” faces.. Haha.. ;p

Suddenly, an officer came and talked politely to that guy.. He explained that he received a complaint regarding the unpleasant smell that spreads in the train.. He ordered him to keep the food and clean himself up..  Oh poor that guy.. He just started to enjoy the delights of durian.. But I smiled at him just to let him know that it was okay of eating durian.. J

And because of that, the train being delayed for almost 30 minutes.. - just to get rid of the smell-

The problem with most people is they have set their minds to hate the King of All Fruits! Come on, you should try before you judge.. It’s delicious!! Trust me.. ;)

Anthony Bourdain, a famous television celebrity also a durian lover!  Even though he said that your breath would smell as if you'd been French-kissing your dead grandmother... Haha.. No!! He was over exaggerating it.. The smell wasn’t that BAD actually.. I enjoy eating durian together with the smell.. ;)

 

For starters, maybe you guys should try the ice cream and cake first.. J

And remember, after eating durian, you guys need to drink lots of water.. Just to prevent yourself from having a fever the next day.. Do not ever taking alcoholic drinks while eating durian, it may cause complications and death.. Only plain water.. J

YES! I’M A FEMINIST.. SO WHAT?

“I’m not angry because I’m feminist..  I’m a feminist because I’m angry.”

It’s not a bad thing to be a female, to be feminine or to be a feminist. There are no buts. If as women we don’t believe that, then who will? 

“I support women’s rights, so am I really a feminist?”

“I like wearing make-up, so am I really a feminist?”

“I’m really into fashion, so am I really a feminist.. ?”

Of course ..! As the answer is always YES!

We wouldn’t be in the position like we are today and have the position and freedom to continue to fight for equality for all women. Don't afraid to admit yourself for being feminist. Is it because embarrassed of the negative stigma that surrounds the label? Don't you mind what other people say. Just be proud of yourself!

I still remember when I was working as a waitress in restaurant.. It was the time I just finished high school.. At first everything was fine.. until the time I felt disgusted after being humiliated by some men who look down on me just because I’m young, naïve, and uneducated.. I knew I was only a waitress, but I do have my own pride and dignity.. At least respect me as a woman! They shouldn’t have had to treat me like a slut, because I’m not!!

There was this Indian fellow who always came to the restaurant where I worked, and he seemed such a nice guy.. Until this one time I received an SMS from my cell phone.. It was an unknown number telling that he’s interested in me and wanted to know each other.. I didn’t know how the hell did he get my number..! But my instinct told me that I knew this must be that Indian guy! I just knew it was him. Because I noticed from the way he looked at me, talked to me.. And it crept me out..

The next day, I was surprised when a florist came to the restaurant, sending me a bouquet of pink roses.. No, didn’t like it because it wasn’t from a person that I really knew.. Even though I knew who exactly sent those roses was.. And 1 more thing, I just figure it out that he was more than 20 years older than me.. Eww, I hate old men flirting with younger females! He finally showed himself up.. And my instinct was right after all.. ;)

I hate it because I knew he wasn’t sincere to befriend with me.. Flowers can’t buy me! Because I am much more than that..

Besides, who knows that he might be already married.. I don’t want to get myself involved with men who are married.. then being accused of trying to destroy their marriage..

I realized that the restaurant I worked for, wasn’t the right place to find good a man.. Most of them treated me disrespectfully. 

All guys act good in front of you at first. To capture your attention.. Many girls lose their virginity in young age.. Because they wanna experience it.. and what make it worse, they gave themselves to the wrong person.. Then they regret it.. Women always get used for sex and dumped!

You know what MOSTLY men usually want? They want sex, sex, sex, and more sex like there’s nothing else they can think of. Their main aim was just to have sex. It is not so rare to find a good guy, no bullshitting, caring, sincerely loves you.. it is just that they're HARD to find.

My parents had educated me to be a nice person.. To be a well respected woman.. And that’s what I am today..

And to those girls out there…

please make a guy WAIT before you sleep with him. Trust me, it'll reveal so much about his character and his true intentions toward you. And in case if he's not happy to wait, then you'll only be losing a jerk.  ;)

to be continued!!!

HOMEMADE CUPCAKES

Sejak tinggal berdua dengan mama, hidup aku bertambah sunyi. Adik aku belajar di Penang, cuti semester baru balik. Jadi kami pun bercadang untuk buat bisnes kecil-kecilan iaitu menerima tempahan Cupcakes..

Terus terang aku katakan, kami tak ada pengalaman langsung dalam membuat kek ini.. Tapi untuk hidup, apa salahnya kalau belajar cara-cara membuatnya..

Ya, perniagaan kami agak slow sikit, sebab kurang promosi.. Setakat ini, jiran-jiran saja yang ada order untuk cupcakes..

Setakat ini, tidak banyak perisa yang kami buat.. Tetapi kami akan tetap belajar untuk membuat perisa lain.. 

Kami jual dengan harga yang berpatutan.. Ini aku sertakan gambar dan harganya sekali.. J

Orange Flavour - RM 2.50

Pandan Flavour - RM 2.50

Chocolate Flavour - RM 2.50

Vanilla Flavour - RM 2.50

Red Velvet - RM 3.00

Sekiranya berminat, ini nombor aku.. H/P 0173222300 @ 0132122670  J 

MISSING MY DEAD FATHER

Almost 4 months have passed.. but still the hurt resides in me.. I miss my Papa.. L He died of lung cancer.. I never knew something like this could happen to me.. Still clear in my mind .. I was shocked when I saw Papa lying down on the floor in his bathroom.  I panicked and quickly called Mama and my brother, Halim for help.. That time I saw a lots of blood clots inside the toilet.. Halim tried to call papa many times.. But no response..

There were a few blood clots inside his mouth and nostril.. Perhaps that caused papa could not able to breathe and collapsed.. I ran and quickly called all the neighbors for help.. Ambulance arrived half an hour after that.. The assistant came in and did a checkup.. And as a result, my papa pronounced dead.. I felt so sad because he left us without saying goodbye…  L

I felt regret because I wasn’t able to help him.. To save him.. And I am also sad that I am not able even once to tell him that I really2 love him..   I miss him so much.. I just hope he knows how much I love him.   I still cry when I see his pictures. 

This was the last picture of him.. :(

Everything has been fated…  All I can do is keep on praying… May his soul rest peacefully..

VACATION WITH FRIENDS

It's been a long time since I've updated my blog here, so I thought I'd make an entry. Well not much has happened over the last few months. Since I quit my job as a customer service at call centre, I started to miss all of my office mates.. I quit because I couldn’t stand handling angry customers!! I did understand the inconvenience if they couldn’t access Internet at home, but the way they talked to me, plus too much of cursing, it really caused me to have an earache!! Well, too bad we were not allowed to fight back since our calls were being recorded.. So all we could do was wait and listen to their complaints.

Well, enough of that. Here I’m gonna share some of my pictures hanging out with my ex office mates.. We were on vacation to Centella Asiatica Janda Baik Resort two months ago.. It is located in the beautiful and serene village of Janda Baik surrounded by natural tropical rain forest in a quiet and beautiful valley.. 

Lake View Chalet

Camp Fire

Parking Lot

River View Chalet

With my trainer, Mr Danny.. Take note, he's not gay! We were just fooling ourselves.. ;p And damn! I look horrible in this pic..! 

We were also hanging around in One Utama Shopping Complex here in Damansara.. It was soo much fun.. 

Oh how cute! :D

Miss u dear Kay..

Sorry guys for the late update.. Should have done this earlier.. I've been really busy lately and don't have much time to update anything.. There are lots of pics that I have, but I can't put it all in here..  ;) Miss u guys a lot.. Hope to see u all soon..